26th
OCT

Pregnancy time is not longer the better

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Rose, 31 years old, five years ago, natural delivery of a girl. The 43 +1 weeks of pregnancy, there is no sign of birth, his stomach is growing. Because once childbirth experience, and since that pregnancy, the more stronger the longer a child, the better life, belief in the “ripe melon pedicle must fall” until the breaking of water two days before coming to the hospital.

A medical examination found that the fetus is too large, emergent Caesarean section and parturition of a baby boy with severe asphyxia. After emergency treatment, newborns out of danger, but too long intrauterine hypoxia may affect the future mental development, and transferred to the neonatal Branch, to conduct high-pressure oxygen therapy.

If more than 42 weeks of pregnancy, compared with prolonged pregnancy. Overdue pregnancy on maternal health and fetal safety are very unfavorable, cut can not be taken lightly. Advised prospective mothers who note the following points:

(1) I remember clearly the Last date of menstrual cramps and menstrual cycle, to accurately calculate the expected date of childbirth;

Tags: caesarean section, childbirth experience, menstrual cramps, pregnancy complications, pregnancy labor, pressure oxygen, timely treatment, work rest

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22nd
OCT

What is the best time to start prenatal care

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Question 1: Prenatal really useful?

Many expectant mothers kept with the belly of every day, “baby” talk, listen to music, doing touch, it is inevitable in mind may ask, prenatal education on fetal really effective?

With the continuous development of modern medicine, more and more studies have shown that fetal baby in the mother’s body, not just a simple nutritional claimant, as he (she) gradually “grow up”, he (she) and sensory organs, and nervous system has been receiving from the mother’s body inside and outside information. He (she) can perceive the mother’s heartbeat, and even “understand” the mother’s emotional and spiritual activities. Between the mother and fetus all the wonderful, which ultimately form the basis for prenatal education to achieve.

Can be said that although prenatal education can not perform miracles, but they can stimulate the internal potential of the fetus, so that he receive a good start in life, a useful education. Thus, prenatal education should belong to the scope of eugenics.

Question 2: When did you start prenatal care from the best?

Tags: mother and child, patience and perseverance, prenatal care, prenatal education, prenatal music, prospective parents

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21st
OCT

The Seven Taboo Words Of American Educate Their Children

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The Seven Taboo Words Of American Educate Their Children:

1. Overstatement

Such as “You are the most beautiful girl in the world” and so on. As the child’s age, they will gradually tell you if contains water, so grown up, to the praise of others will be skeptical. In addition, the parents used to listen to exaggerated praise a child, on entering the society, often only heard good things, listening to an adverse opinion.

2. A personal attack

Such as “you are fat like pigs,” and so on. Low intelligence and then the children, he can appreciate these sort of words contained in “bad faith”, the spirit will be the most destructive. In addition, young children may also be taken at face value and give themselves up, the final loss of self-esteem and confidence.

3. Intimidation

Such as “Without a good homework, I’ll beat you” and so on. The threat of this bluff the loss of parents give their children close to and trust.

4. Frosty

Such as “You do not see I’m busy” and so on. Children hear these words from the subtext is: great people I do not care about things, they do not put me as their baby.

5. Occupy a commanding position

Such as “you do not have to listen to listen to” and so on. If parents always “lofty”, the children will not be able to accept criticism of psychological balance, so even if you get 100% correct criticism, the children will also appear not convinced response.

6. Cynical

Such as “Why do you think he is very able” and so on. Children, especially parents of young children are most afraid of is that from the mouth of the mockery. Even if you say these words when Hou, possibly with a bit of a sense of humor, but to know that “small non-point” are very difficult to be properly understood.

7. Absolutely Say No

Such as “You always lie” and so on. Indeed, criticism is a way of educating the children, but if the words “must”, but may lead to the child’s rebellious, which lead to the eventual refusal to accept such criticism and education.

Tags: bad faith, beautiful girl, girl in the world, personal attack, psychological balance, sense of humor, taboo words

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21st

How to help children overcome jealousy

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As adults, as children will envy, and envy of their more intense and strange. When the children discovered that other people there when they want something, whether it is appearance, toys, teacher recognition, and even the parents concern, their hearts will have a small jealousy generated. How to help children overcome this impulse to do?

Because there is a brother at home, nine, Jack always feel that Mom and Dad do not like their own. Both outings, birthday parties, or together with his mother, his father and mother always complained that eccentric. Mom explained that he spent a lot of time playing with him, or what he has done wrong, but my brother did not, at this time, Jack the pouting, saying that his brother and some toys that they do not, or emphasize his brother have been at fault and that our own good as gold.

Jack so many children have mental, when they see someone else does not have their own things, including clothes, ability, popularity and toys, etc., and even some unexpected things that adults are likely to induce envy of their . Some parents think that such performance will increase with age and natural child disappeared, but experts point out that excessive jealousy will affect children’s normal psychological development, so that they contrast with others in their own felt inferiority complex, self-esteem and prevent children the establishment of self-esteem, therefore, parents should be before the child reaches school age, teaching them how to overcome such sentiments. Here let us learn how to help children to reduce envy, and when the child’s thought has been dominated by jealousy, when and how to heal their emotions.

Note that the child’s implied and expressed sympathy for

A child is difficult to control their emotions, but for parents who observe the child’s behavior, they tend to grasp the child’s mood is not difficult. When children envy broke out, their behavior in corresponding changes often occur, such as sabotage, crying or jealous object ill, and so on. Sometimes, the envy will be reflected in the child’s psychological and physical aspects, such as stomach pains, sadness, irritability, depression or no emotion. At this time, parents need to express sympathy and understanding for their children, and help children put their ideas say so. For example, the father with a 5-year-old daughter to play swing, standing on the side of the 3-year-old son aggrieved cry, and this time, my mother can say, “Look, Dad has always accompanied his sister to play with us all cold-shouldered on one side This is not fair, right? “If the children agree that parents be able to tell him that this feeling is called the” envy “-” I know you feel jealous, is not it? but it’s nothing. “parents understand it can be to appease the child’s emotional, because when the kids needed more often than not the satisfaction of desire, but patience to listen to the parents, as well as recognition of their inner feelings.

Let the child know that adults would envy

Obviously, envy is a kind of negative emotions, but we need to let children know, even if they are respected father and mother also have jealous feelings. We can tell a child, when the baby and his father together, my mother will be jealous father, but she will not be chaos angry, or sad. Or give my personal story to tell their children themselves have had the same feelings. For example, when Jack complained that he could not and his brother to participate in Taekwondo classes, like when his mother told him that my mom’s childhood also had the same experience, but such feelings can be overcome. “I know? I elementary school, when Mom and Dad never allowed me to play in the street, but the neighbor’s sister had been playing in the dark outside! How unfair!” The story of Jack know the original Mama also envy. Mom then told Tom, that any one child can not be exactly the same treatment and that of others and must learn to accept.

Do not over-emphasize the negative things that

Children will practice by observing the adults to shape their own behavior, so when you find a child to feel jealous, when, in sympathy at the same time, not too much emphasis on the position of children, not accused of being jealous of the object, not only will will further stimulate the child’s jealous feelings, but also led to a child develop easily attributed to other people’s bad habits. If your child find the table with his classmate’s birthday was invited to send teams to participate in, and he has not been invited. At this time, we must not blame that birthday of the child, but should tell the child, mother understand your grievances, but do not sorry, everyone has different friends, his birthday, when not and can not put their knowledge Everyone invited to do? In this way, the child will understand, not because he was unpopular and not invited, it will not be unpopular with the students that birthday.

Help your child find a viable solution

Feel jealous of the kids want to be and others the same treatment, if, at this time parents can induce their children, control their emotions, not only can alleviate the jealousy, but also help to build children’s self-confidence and self-esteem. If children feel that the team playing a team-mate longer than themselves, we can ask him, if you strengthen the practice, the situation will be changed? At this time, children will find that although he can not control the coach’s choice, but can control their own choices – through exercises to improve their skills, the opportunity to play more naturally. Or, when the children see their parents for their children’s attention to others, feeling jealous that time, we should take action to eliminate the child’s misunderstanding. 5-year-old Lily, because her mother missed the performances in their roles in school performances, and very unhappy, “someone else’s mother had come!” So, my mother let Lily at home, to my mother opened a Session party. This, Lily realized that my mother is very concerned about themselves, will no longer be disappointed, or jealous of other students.

Try not to take a child compared with others

You may not notice that in talking about the other child, an unintentional “Lucy more and more cute,” or just a smile, a shrug of the action, or even lift the eyebrows, may be interpreted as a child to “do more.” In particular, when your child has done well in a certain time, they are more likely for those who do well in the children feel jealous. On one occasion, Lily’s mother and an aunt said the girl’s hair is very cute neighbor Unfortunately, his daughter’s hair is straight. Unexpectedly, the next day, the United States and the United States will require mothers to bring their own to the salon, we should burn the hair into curls! The United States and the United States my mother suddenly realized that their own assessment of her daughter’s jealousy led to psychological, Since then, she was never evaluated her daughter’s hair, while great attention, not to take her daughter and other children for comparison.

Help children discover their own strengths

A lack of self-confidence of children likes to insist their own weaknesses, but also the feeling of inferiority that is easier to stimulate envy them. Therefore, parents must help children build self-confidence, let him know he also has advantages, but also for my own pride in the capital. If the painting has gifted child, parents should be lot of encouragement. Whenever a child to solve a problem themselves, or made a little progress, even if only a math problem, we should let him know that Mom and Dad have taken note of, and proud of him. Experts point out that when the child to feel proud, they more receptive to other people in a certain area to get more attention. Such self-confidence can not only help children overcome their envy, is more conducive they are to create self-This is truly worthy of the envy of others, the ability to.

Tags: birthday parties, good as gold, psychological development, self esteem, teacher recognition

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18th
OCT

The important reason for children drink milk

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Tom this year, five-year-old kindergarten middle shift, I enjoy painting, physical fitness is also very good, but they are worse language skills than some of the students. Tom’s favorite kindergarten because you can eat dim sum, in particular, the recent kindergarten funds are sufficient, will give the children two cups of fresh milk a day, a few packets of biscuits and cheese. The teacher told his mother, Tom recently lazy, and does not seem to like the previous hearing was relatively poor, and often not heard classmates or the teacher called her.

Mom to bring Tom to see a pediatrician before Tom found a serious otitis media, and there are holes in eardrums, we must lose no antibiotics and surgical drainage may be done. Tom heard her mother to undergo an operation, can not help but worry hurry up, only blame themselves usually are too focused on work, not aware of a child. In retrospect, it is no wonder that the recent Tom often dug their ears, but also the smell, my mother thought it was taking a bath when the water flow into, and was originally ears had been festering.

Mother has high school students a nurse, it is recommended with Tom to see a natural medicine physician. Results doctors a look, found the kindergarten milk and biscuits and cheese to blame, to Tom to stop eating all dairy products, and taking a number of natural agents. 3 weeks later, Tom’s eardrum will be a natural healing, and no longer dug ears.

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18th

Children often sweating may not be calcium deficiency

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“Children are often sweat in peacetime, as long as the activities on a lot of sweat into the summer, played a lot of prickly heat. At home for the elderly are skeptical of the child is not calcium deficiency?” Recently, Ms. Smith in New York for his daughter advice. “Some parents see their children in a lot of sweat, they worry that their child is suffering from rickets. Should be explained that children often sweating, may not be calcium deficiency.”

Experts say, “the child’s metabolism relative to adults, more vigorous, sweating more than is normal, if the child does not have the phenomenon of irritability and crying, parents do not worry, do not specifically for children to eat calcium products.”

Experts remind that the physical weakness of the child may also lead to more sweating. If you suspect a child is a calcium deficiency caused by sweat more, you can look up trace elements.

Tags: calcium deficiency, calcium products, peacetime, physical weakness, trace elements

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18th

The best food for children calcium

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Calcium is very important to the baby, which is why many parents, issues of common concern, however, despite the current market, there are many calcium products, calcium tablets, oral solution, etc., but the doctors have advocated: calcium in order to eat food better.

What is calcium?

Calcium constitute the largest element of the human body, accounting for 1.5% of body weight to 2%, or 1200 ~ 2000 grams.

99% of calcium found in bones, teeth in 1% present in the blood and soft tissue cells. Skeleton is the body’s stand, but also calcium stores, the human body when the use of bone calcium supplement calcium deficiency, bone and calcium homeostasis.

Children’s easy to calcium deficiency caused by illness: anorexia, the partial eclipse; is not easy to go to sleep, easy to wake up; colds; sparse hair; mental retardation; toddler, teething late or irregular teeth; paroxysmal abdominal pain and diarrhea; X or O -type leg; chicken.

Calcium is very important to the baby, which is why many parents, issues of common concern, however, despite the current market, there are many calcium products, calcium tablets, oral solution, etc., but the doctors advocate – calcium or in eat food better.

What are calcium rich foods, but also suitable for baby food?

1. Cheese and other milk and dairy products.

2. Tofu, soy milk and other soy products.

3. Dried small shrimps, kelp, seaweed, fish, fish bone meal and other aquatic products.

4. Other foods: egg yolk, pork ribs soup, lotus root starch, starchy vegetables such as plants, sesame seeds, hawthorn and so on.

Tags: calcium homeostasis, calcium rich foods, calcium supplement, milk and dairy products, partial eclipse, pork ribs, sesame seeds, sparse hair

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18th

Harm to the baby brain’s five types of food

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Reasonable to add some nutritious food to children can play the role of the brain puzzle. Conversely, if not pay attention to the choice of food, let him eat what the kids eat anything, but would be detrimental to the brain’s development. Which foods detrimental to brain development, then?

Salty food

Salty foods will not only cause high blood pressure, arteriosclerosis and other diseases, but also damage arteries, affecting the blood supply to brain tissue, causing brain cells to ischemia and hypoxia, leading to memory loss, mental retardation.

The human body’s requirements for salt, 7 grams a day for adults, children under 4 grams per day. Parents should spend less time in daily life to the children to eat more salty foods such as pickles, mustard, bacon, bean paste and so on.

More food containing MSG

Medical research shows that pregnant women often eat late in the pregnancy, if MSG can cause fetal zinc deficiency, children less than age there is too much consumption of MSG may cause necrosis of brain cells. The World Health Organization: Adult daily intake of MSG, the amount of not more than 4 grams, pregnant women and children less than age fasting MSG. Even if the big kids as little as possible also to feed their children more food containing MSG.

Lipid peroxide-containing foods

Lipid peroxide can cause premature aging or dementia the brain is directly detrimental to brain development. Bacon, smoked fish, etc. in oil temperature of 200 degrees or higher or prolonged exposure fried foods contain more lipid peroxide, parents should be less to feed their children.

Lead Food

Medical studies have shown that lead kill brain cells, damage the brain. Popcorn, Century egg, beer and other lead more, parents should be less to feed their children.

Aluminum-containing food

Regularly to feed their children foods that are high amount of aluminum may cause memory decline, unresponsive, and even lead to dementia. Therefore, parents had better not let children eat fried dough sticks, cake and other aluminum-containing foods that are high volume.

Tags: brain development, brain puzzle, high blood pressure, memory loss, premature aging, prolonged exposure, world health organization, zinc deficiency

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