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Please considerate to the care of adolescent children

Posted by watertree under Adolescence

Psychologists to adolescence as “a dangerous period of youth,” or “passive resistance period.”

Puberty early teen-year-old child, seemed to come to the crossroads of life. They looked around, puzzled and their own hearts, easy emotional instability. And 90 years after puberty, but also with the economic and social development in countries in transition meet by chance – at a loss doubled, the temptation to double, values diversity, but buried in work and life stress in adults, negligence or no time to into the children’s adolescence, “psychological alley,” there are occasional incidents when the stimulation, this unpredictable period of risk youth may have suddenly lost control, causing a vicious incident. Therefore, this period is also the drug abuse, sexual misconduct, psychological abnormalities, suicide, crime, high-risk periods.

In fact, the “dangerous period” of the protagonist, often also with the helpless anguish. They face their own day sad night a large body Yan intersection, in the face of the opposite sex suddenly produced his extraordinary interest in a loss, they involuntarily uncharacteristically, for elders, the attitude of passive resistance, involuntarily suddenly hi suddenly worry, irritable irritability, or even deny previously developed a number of good habits and norms.

Hungry adults and children rely on an independent inertia to haunt them, in the conflicting psychological state they are struggling, there is a very clear idea – that is, to respect and to be understood as a very strong level, as well as needs.

They suddenly grew up, they need teachers and parents, great patience and an open mind, desire for recognition and praise, eager to cast a lifetime self-confidence.

In the United States, the school counseling done by a dedicated commitment to the school psychologist. They both psychology and pedagogy have received professional training in an effort to teachers, parents and mental health professionals rarely work together to ensure that every child in a safe, healthy and full of the spirit of cooperation environment to grow. Their work, the highest one of the criteria is respect for each child’s privacy.

However, in developing countries, teachers and parents in general, on the child’s psycho-physiological changes of puberty are dealing with very hasty. Scores and further education for adolescent children has become almost the only requirement, ignoring the children’s privacy and dignity. There is no psychological knowledge, teachers can openly criticize the privacy of students, there is no sense of equality can be beaten by the father of the child emotions. And long-term lack of timely emotional guidance, and professional psychological counseling to children, self-esteem increasingly vulnerable. Even though some schools have psychological counseling room, students had to queue up, hoping to pour out their minds before the psychology teacher. However, this has often become the short-lived moment, psychological room closed the door quickly to students, while the voices of adolescent students, but also gradually shut down for adults.

At any time, adults can be taught equally in a calm manner with the child, even if it is a mistake of the children?

When looking down from above no doubt that the elderly have become indiscriminate authoritarian power in the material life Beishou care of adolescent children, the minds of increasingly vulnerable.

We are, but also continues to ignore such a negligence do? How many children still suffer from psychological illness, we can reflect on the serious lack of adolescent education?

Tags: crossroads of life, good habits, mental health professionals, psychological abnormalities, psychological state

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